Medical fetish
You know how after a really kinky sex scene you kind of take stock of your body and think about all the wild stuff you did with a feeling of awe and mild disbelief? And then the next morning you take...
View ArticleProstate milking
If I have a fetish, it’s probably for learning and exploring novel concepts sexually. Thankfully, I haven’t ever run out of exciting new perversions to try. Just when I was afraid that I’d done it all,...
View ArticleSpeaking my story
I feel like a huge weight has been removed from my chest and throat. Tension I didn’t even know I was carrying has lessened enough to for me to feel lighter. And yet, I kind of feel like my date with...
View ArticleReview: A Year of Sex
Book: “A Year of Sex” Author: Mia Martina Where to buy: Amazon Kindle, Barnes & Noble Nook, Apple iBooks, and Google Books Mia Martina’s debut memoir is brilliant! I devoured the whole book in one...
View ArticleBurning love
I’m in agony. Well, no, not really – but I am pretty uncomfortable. There’s a burning sensation around my urethra, just below my clitoris and above my vaginal opening. I’ve been experiencing this...
View ArticleOn drugs
I don’t know what’s up with my sex life. I had a root canal 3 days ago and I’ve been in a lot of pain since. I’ve felt so much pain that I gave in and took Percocet. Normally I would avoid narcotics...
View ArticleIf I’m not a masochist, why am I torturing myself?
Labels get in the way sometimes. I’ve been asking myself if I’m a sadist or a masochist, as though there is a continuum with each term on either end. What I’m coming to understand is that sadism and...
View ArticleInterview: Xochiquetzal Duti Odinsdottir
Photo by: http://thenakeddesert.artworkfolio.com/ I meet a lot of fascinating people in my line of work, but even so, sometimes a person really stands out. Meet Xochiquetzal Duti Odinsdottir. She runs...
View ArticlePain made beautiful
It is mysterious how our jangly energy can eventually come together so strongly. We feel each other acutely. We make love until we flow together, our energies combined. He feels my restless anger. I...
View ArticleYou belong on your knees
You belong on your knees, head bowed, hands offered up, give me your prayers. Beg me, please, please, please. I want your submission, sublimation, I will take from you your sin, your sorrow, your...
View ArticleEmbodiment
This morning I had an epiphany: I am not treating my body with respect. I have worked hard to have a good body image and to listen to what my body wants during sex. I eat foods that are right for me...
View ArticleBlood, life, sex
Just so we’re clear upfront – I’m going to be talking a lot about blood here, and how sexy it is. I don’t get off on hurting people, not really, not much, but blood… Blood is intense. Blood is...
View ArticleHappy birthday Baby!
A few days ago Harold (my partner in life, love, and hare-brained scheming) turned 65. He’s not much for celebrating, but we wanted to do something special. Of course we wanted to make love, but what...
View ArticleVulvodynia: wherein our heroine goes mad but finds it boring and decides to...
At first I thought I had a yeast infection, a common enough occurrence for me. I treated with more probiotics and some boric acid capsules. When that didn’t work I begged my provider for Fluconazole. I...
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